New Year Resolutions??? I mean what is this? I've never been a big believer in them, probably because when someone has said "my NYR is: to lose weight, to not eat chocolate, etc", it seems that by the end of January; sometimes by the 15th of January, they've gained 10lbs because they've eaten everything chocolate in sight. Why would someone make a promise to themself just to break it. Then again, if you can't keep a promise to yourself, how could anyone think you can keep a promise about anything else. Wow, an insight on a person. I'm not willing to set myself up like that.
To all the weightloss places who run adds on the telly around the new year, should be ashammed, talk about highway robbery! <Honest Telly Advertisement> "Hi, we know you've made a NYR to lose weight, and we have this amazing 24 month contract ~ that you can't get out of ~ so come in, we promise, that we'll automatically withdrawal from you checking for 24 months and in 3 months, we will NEVER see you again"...Wow! Weightloss place, thanks! The only thing I've ever lost was the money out of my checking accout and the weight of my wallet...I just got it ~ it has nothing to do with your BMI!
Honestly, I'm not sure how this makes a difference, if your going to lose the weight, then it's about you and only YOU ~ so what if you've TRIED 100's of other things, the problem is you've TRIED....if you actually DID it then you would have LOST it. I mean, think about it...if all just TRIED to do the laundry, whoo ~ it would be horrible ~ lots of naked people ~ thank goodness for the people who actually DO the laundry. Quit doing things half way! There's no quick fix, no miracle drink, stop making excuses ~ Your LAZY, Your a COUCH POTATO.
Everyday, I wake up and pray to be a better me: wife, mother, friend, sister, daughter...whatever hat I'm wearing for that day. Am I going to be that quiet person, who keeps her mouth shut ~ probably not. Does my loving hubby wish I would, OH I am 1,000% sure at times he does. I am definitely quick to speak, and wish I would have thought about what I should have said, or how I should have said it differently ~ maybe I wouldn't have hurt someone, someone that I care and love deeply. Unfortunately, you can't go back and repair the damage you've done, you can apologize and hope that what you do from this point on will only show who you are and want to be from this point forward. I know that I need to learn to not speak with so many emotions ~ I have such a hurtful tongue ~ maybe I should grab the Louisiana hotsauce and a toothpick for myself sometimes, okay alot of times.
I guess I should tell ya'll a little bit about myself, there's a book called "Men Are Like Waffles--Women Are Like Spaghetti by: Bill & Pam Farrel" the book explains why a man is like a waffle (each element of his life is in a separate box), why a woman is life spaghetti (everything in her life touches everything else), and what these differences mean ~ it's an amazing book ~ way better than the Venus vs. Mars (way weird book!) anyways ~ I'm totally Spaghetti. I'm all over the place, so may need a big bowl, fork and a hefty appetite to read my post...but I promise I'll get to my point ~ ~ eventually. :o)
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